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How does one succeed in life?

10.06.2025 00:08

How does one succeed in life?

Procrastinates a lot.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How should one respond to compliments such as "You are so special" and "I'm lucky to have met you" from a guy?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Hangs out with loser friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Making more friends is a goal.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why do narcissists and especially covert narcissists always play the victim?

Ask yourself:

What I need from you?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Does not procrastinate.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

That's it for today.